The Love Map 20 Questions Game

Boneto and I are coming up on 1 year of living together and we're at just over 2 years of knowing each other; our wedding is less than 3 months away! Our story is not traditionally linear.

• After less than a week of messaging back and forth - and before meeting in person - Boneto invited me to a wedding in Mexico that was 6 months away.
  
•  5 months into our long-distance relationship (like, almost 700km apart) ... Pregnancy!
• After less than a month of living together, and spending most of the pregnancy apart, Olivia was born.

See? Not your typical love story! But we love each other; he's my best friend and my person.

Last night, we started reading the first chapter of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. (I'm into personal development, so why not some couple PD!?). The first chapter is about Love Maps and really knowing your partner. We played a 20 questions game and there were only 2 questions that we couldn't immediately answer about each other.
Interested in seeing where you stand with your partner. Play this game on date night!

Directions
Together, randomly decide on twenty numbers between 1 and 60. Write the numbers down in a column on the left-hand side of a piece of paper. Beginning with the top of your column, match the numbers you chose to the questions below. Each of you should ask your partner this question. If your spouse answers correctly (you be the judge!), he or she receives the number of points indicated for that question, and you receive one point. If your spouse answers incorrectly, neither of you receives any points. The same rules apply when you answer. The winner is the person with the higher score after you've both answered all twenty questions.

1. Name my two closest friends. (2)
2. What is my favorite musical group, composer, or instrument? (2)
3. What was I wearing when we first met? (2)
4. Name one of my hobbies. (3)
5. Where was I born? (1)
6. What stresses am I facing right now? (4)
7. Describe in detail what I did today or yesterday. (4)
8. When is my birthday? (1)
9. What is the date of our anniversary? (1)
10. Who is my favorite relative? (2)
11. What is my fondest unrealized dream? (5)
12. What is my favorite flower? (2)
13. What is one of my greatest fears or disaster scenarios? (3)
14. What is my favorite time of day for lovemaking? (3)
15. What makes me feel most competent? (4)
16. What turns me on sexually? (3)
17. What is my favorite meal? (2)
18. What is my favorite way to spend an evening? (2)
19. What is my favorite color? (1)
20. What personal improvements do I want to make in my life? (4)
21. What kind of present would I like best? (2)
22. What was one of my best childhood experiences? (2)
23. What was my favorite vacation? (2)
24. What is one of my favorite ways to be soothed? (4)
25. Who is my greatest source of support (other than you)? (3)
26. What is my favorite sport? (2)
27. What do I most like to do with time off? (2)
28. What is one of my favorite weekend activities? (2)
29. What is my favorite getaway place? (3)
30. What is my favorite movie? (2)
31. What are some of the important events coming up in my life? How do I feel about them? (4)
32. What are some of my favorite ways to work out? (2)
33. Who was my best friend in childhood? (3)
34. What is one of my favorite magazines? (2)
35. Name one of my major rivals or “enemies”. (3)
36. What would I consider my ideal job? (4)
37. What do I fear the most? (4)
38. Who is my least favorite relative? (3)
39. What is my favorite holiday? (2)
40. What kinds of books do I most like to read? (3)
41. What is my favorite TV show? (2)
42. Which side of the bed do I prefer? (2)
43. What am I most sad about? (4)
44. Name one of my concerns or worries. (4)
45. What medical problems do I worry about? (2)
46. What was my most embarrassing moment? (3)
47. What was my worst childhood experience? (3)
48. Name two of the people I most admire. (4)
49. Name my major rival or enemy. (3)
50. Of all the people we both know, who do I like the least? (3)
51. What is one of my favorite desserts? (2)
52. What is my social security number? (2)
53. Name one of my favorite novels. (2)
54. What is my favorite restaurant? (2)
55. What are two of my aspirations, hopes, and wishes? (4)
56. Do I have a secret ambition? What is it? (4)
57. What foods do I hate? (2)
58. What is my favorite animal? (2)
59. What is my favorite song? (2)
​60. Which sports team is my favorite? (2)

Find The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work on Amazon here. 
Find more information about author John M. Gottman and his institute here.